When you look at this picture what do you see? Without any context, I expect most of you may simply say ‘looks like a group of happy black men posing for a picture’. You wouldn’t be wrong, but it’s much more important than that. The building these men are stood in front of is Cambridge University and, it may be surprising to some of you, its not because they stumbled upon it and liked the scenery. These 14 black men are students enrolling at one of the most prestigious universities in the world.
I’m now on a nostalgia trip, thinking back to my time in sixth form. I remember dreading the time when I would eventually have to apply to university, I foresaw it as an end to my youth and as a realisation that I would now have to build towards a successful future. I remember my form tutor, a teacher that would register us in the morning, standing before the group and asking the simple question: “anyone hoping to go to Oxford or Cambridge?” In actual fact, that question was anything but simple. For me anyways. You see, it only took a second for a sea of hands to shoot to the sky waving slightly from side to side; with excitement rather than exhaustion. None of those hands were black. Growing up black, you’re faced with a number of stereotypes that will undoubtedly limit your experience of life if you choose to listen to them. “As a black person you can… only listen to rap music… hang out with predominantly black people… wear a hood… be a thief… be stupid” these are all stereotypes that were expected of me growing up. It says a lot when you meet teachers who are shocked you aren’t dumb, when you meet peers who don’t understand why your music palette transcends only gangster rap, when strangers look at you funny because you’re holding the hand of a girl with white skin.
Stereotypes are easy to succumb to because… well, they’re easy. When people expect certain things of you its easier to appease their minds than it is to change them. Whether you’re black, white or any colour of the bloody rainbow, everyone has stereotypes that they are aware of and that they may either choose to contest or accept. On that day, in that classroom, I accepted the stereotype that black people don’t go to the very best universities – “the night life is rubbish… the people there are nerds… you won’t have any fun” I took these reassurances from my peers and convinced myself that these were all reasons to limit my opportunities in life. I can’t say I’m proud of that decision but when you’re young its easier to think that no matter what route you take; you will always make it to the finish line. And I still believe that, only now I prefer the shorter routes.
In the 2015/2016 academic year, out of 3,449 students accepted into Cambridge; only 38 students defined themselves as black. Thirty-eight. Hopefully now you see that this picture means a lot more than it may seem at first glance. It’s a symbol of a stereotype being exposed for just what it is, a stereotype. We don’t have to follow the route that others believe we should be on, we don’t have to limit our opportunities because its easier to ignore a storm than it is to face it full on. Regardless of whether you ignore a storm or not, it’s still there.
‘William Gore, Bez Adeosun, Peter Adefioye, Judah Aiyenuro, Joseph Adikwu, Dennis Mubaiwa, Dami Adebayo, Ife Adepegba , Donte Nembhard, Baba Bob-Soile, Daniel Oluboyede, Michael Samuelson-Beulah, Folajimi Babasola, Ade Omisore.’ These are all the names of the people in this picture. But this picture isn’t exclusive, its much bigger than pixels on a screen.
You, yourself, can add yourself to this picture.
‘I’m a Londoner born and raised. Witnessing excellence in my Local area is worth writing about. What are you most proud of in your area? Let me know.’
Wonderful story! Congratulations on being accepted to a prestige school like Cambridge and sharing your story. For all of us, in different ways and for different reasons, there can be limitations in life, but if we “want” something enough we learn to silence the nay sayers from our minds and FOCUS on making our own personal dreams come true! I wish you great success!
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Haha thank you! But I wasn’t accepted into Cambridge, only giving my opinion on the story 🙂 I’m glad you understood the message bud, wish you success too!
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This was incredible! I love how you added all the names of the men in that picture. I’m really impressed. You’re so completely right👏🏻👏🏻
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very grateful for your kind words bud 🙂
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nice story, i’m glad to hear your story but i don’t have a picture with my friend because burning
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I have no idea what this means but thank you 😂
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What a great story! I like how you structured your explanation to place a climax on reality. I really enjoyed this!
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Very glad to hear that bud 😄
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This is a great photo, I love how you all look happy. This picture reminds me of my son who just finished is exams in his last year at high school!! Good Luck to you!!
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Haha I’m not in the photo 👀 thanks though
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Great article. Thank you. What do you think can be done about the storm that we continue to ignore? Time doesn’t seem to be fixing anything.
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I was once taught that stereotypes are just a quicker route of mediation. They take no effort or thought, hence the media perpetuates them continuously. We, and the newer generation, are learning what it is to be proud of ourselves after centuries of oppression. The tide is changing my friend — it’s happening slowly; but it is changing 🙂
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I am pleased to here that you are smashing through archaic stereotypes. While gang culture does exist, there are so many young black men and women who are defying the odds and proving their academic and creative excellence!
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Stereotypes are easy to succumb to …. Thats is so true.
We often hurt people while assuming bad things, things which are not even true about people , and that’s not good. The world needs to change their perspective
Great article 😊
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Amen sister 🙂
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😋😋😋
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Oh my gosh love, a massive congratulations are in orders super proud bro and as your family must be! Keep it moving x
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